The Mistake of Wrong Anticipation

Over and over again , I made the same mistake of anticipating of what others thinks of me or feels about me. Most often I think somethings which is not the other person really thinks or feels. This kind of attitude is really something not good on my part. Before anticipating what others feels about me or thinks, I must be able to observe them. But how on earth am I going to know their minds! I am not a mind reader surely. But I guess I must stop anticipating or say predicting others attitude or thinking. I should always think that until and unless someone expresses what they really feel, I must not come out with any kind of comments whatsoever.

Human beings can feel differently and can have different attitudes depending on what they want. Therefore it is not easy to predict someone's attitudes and feelings. It should be remembered that our intentions varies time to time. So let's not judge others by what we feel but let's get to know what they feel and why they act in a certain way. Hope that will be helpful someway.

Saving a Space

Saving a space for myself...

What would i am numbed and my mind speaks not.....
would anyone hear the cry inside?

What if I am gone ....
would anyone know I deeply desired?

What would I speak thousand words and nobody listens...
whould it have any effect?

so saving a space for me...
to do what I feel to do,
and find my joy in my own little way.

So I say what I want
I do what makes me happy
And I write what makes me to write
No worries, just penning down my thoughts.

Spculations in Life

Unknown Speculations

Many a times I asked myself
What I am? What I can be? What I am not?
I didn’t get a straight answer
None got it either, I guess.

Many I times I wondered
Why I think those things that I am thinking
I couldn’t find an answer to that
Probably there isn’t an answer for that.


Many I times I tried to evaluate my actions
The reason of my living
The reason of acting one or the other way
The answers weren’t available at all.

I tried to ask myself
Those questions that we ask ourselves
Most often, now and then
The questions simply complicated my life

I know not what Life is
And why should we struggle always
I know not where it ends
Where it begins
I only know this very minute
That I am living

Next moment maybe gone
Next will just be in anticipation
Life is a mystery
The destinations is not known
To anyone
All that we do just speculate
Of Things Unknown.

By Litton
26/03/09